In the interest of full disclosure and transparency, let me preface this with the note that I have recently become friends with X, and that said friendship is growing stronger over time.

I support your decision to isolate yourself from X, though I do not support the desire to insist that those not close to you isolate themselves from X. If the desire is to prevent the spreading of what has been called rape culture, shunning those who have crossed that boundary will leave only those who enable that behavior for them to turn to. This is, as far as I'm concerned, akin to the issue of criminals finding tips and connections to further their illegal activities when thrown in prison with other criminals.

I recognize that this was unacceptable behavior from X, but I do not believe unacceptable behavior is beyond forgiveness, nor is it behavior that cannot be unlearned if X is held accountable for it.

I like you, Rax. I don't want to lose you as a friend because I am friends with X, but I understand if you feel that I am untrustworthy as a result of my association. I will be happy to inform you of where X will be (when that is relevant) to ensure that the two of you avoid one another.

I wish you only the very best.