And it's not only screwing up, it's willfully continuing to do so after many, many people have said in clear language why her behavior and language are problematic. Bah.

I am still glad I met her and have a picture of me sitting on her lap grinning like crazy, because that entire weekend was really intense for me and talking to her was an important part of the experience. But yeah, I am much less excited about her now, and also really saddened by that.