You know, I have the same issue about looking too femmy. Does it make sense for me? Does it really mesh with my personality, with the way I carry myself, with what I want to communicate with myself? And I have some outfits which are definitely more toward that feminine angle, and I tend to shy away from wearing them because I worry about overdoing it or – and this isn't limited to trannies, but it's an exceedingly common tranny worry – trying to be "something I'm not". Because there's the sense that past some magic line, wearing clothing that's "too feminine" for one's physical traits will suddenly become the thing that tips folks off and makes one look more awkward, not less.

I still have all these worries. A lot. But, you know, as I push myself away from androgyny and let myself experiment with the more femmy stuff, I chip away at those worries bit by bit. And I feel empowered to wear whatever the hell I want. So, you know... rock that blouse. *grin*