They're not to be blamed, but they're partly at fault? You can't have both of those.
Having sex with someone who is unable to say no is wrong and entirely the fault of the one initiating sex in my worldview, even if the one unable to give or deny concent was in that state entirely of their own initiative.
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Date: 2009-08-19 07:13 am (UTC)Having sex with someone who is unable to say no is wrong and entirely the fault of the one initiating sex in my worldview, even if the one unable to give or deny concent was in that state entirely of their own initiative.